Gambaran Sikap Mahasiswa yang Pernah Mengalami Kekerasan dalam Berpacaran

Abstract

Dating violence is a social problem that has become a concern lately. Dating violence also has physical and psychological impacts. The violence that occurs usually consists of several types, for example physical, psychological/mental, and sexual attacks. Physical aspects such as hitting, pulling hair, slapping. Psychological/mental aspects such as being made jealous on purpose, coercion, cursing in public. Sexual aspects such as being forced to kiss, groping the body, forcing to have sex. Dating violence has negative impacts in various aspects, namely physical impacts such as wounds, bruises, bruises and others. psychological impacts such as anxiety, trauma, stress, depression. social impacts such as victims isolating themselves at home, having low self-esteem, not daring to have a relationship. This study aims to see the psychological picture of students who have experienced dating violence. For students who experience dating violence, there are psychological impacts consisting of aspects of thought patterns (cognitive), feelings (affective) and behavior (conative). The research method used in this study is the Indigenous Psychology approach. The number of samples in this study was 57 respondents. The results of the study showed that aspects of thought patterns (fear of being wrong, distrust, optimism), aspects of feelings (sad, disappointed, angry), and aspects of behavior (not having a relationship anymore, being careful, crying) The results of this research can be used as a reference in preventing violence in dating.