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Abstract

This study aims to explore the lived experiences of single fathers in performing dual roles as breadwinners and caregivers. This phenomenon has become increasingly relevant amid the rising rates of divorce and spousal mortality, which directly affect family structures but remain underexplored in sociological research. The study employs a qualitative approach with a case study method, involving ten single fathers aged up to 50 years living in Lubuk Pakam District who have adolescent or younger children. Data were collected through in-depth interviews, participant observation, and documentation. The findings reveal that single fathers face a dual burden: earning a living while also managing household duties such as cooking, washing, cleaning, and assisting their children with schoolwork. Their limited parenting experience often leaves them overwhelmed in addressing their children’s emotional needs. Furthermore, they experience social isolation, pressure to remarry, and limited social support. These conditions influence their parenting patterns and affect the psychological development of their children. An analysis using William J. Goode’s Role Strain Theory indicates that conflicts between domestic and public roles lead to both physical and emotional stress. Therefore, support from families, communities, and public policies is essential to help single fathers fulfill their roles effectively. Keywords: single father, dual role, child care, social isolation, role conflict, social pressure.