Deteritorialisasi Sosial Pasangan Suami Istri (Studi Kasus Keputusan Pasangan Menikah Melalui Media Internet)

Abstract

Social deterritorialization is a new form of social phenomenon that has emerged due to the increasingly rapid development of internet media. Social deterritorialization is a phenomenon that can make our geographical boundaries disappear or be considered no longer relevant. Social de-socialization in internet media has resulted in the erosion of value orientations, where a person in cyberspace in the development of technology can feel intimate with another person in cyberspace who is in another part of the world who has never previously met face to face and can even create a new relationship, namely a marriage relationship. . This research aims to explore further the processes and factors of husband and wife couples in creating social deterritorialization relationships on internet media using Herbert Blumer's Symbol Theory. Researchers want to see the processes and factors that influence the creation of the phenomenon of social deterritorialization on internet media. This research uses a descriptive method with a qualitative approach. The object of this research is a couple who decided to get married because they met through the internet. The research informants were couples who had been married for at least one year and had only met one or two meetings. Data analysis in this research uses an interactive analysis model, namely the stages of data collection, data presentation and conclusions. The research results show: 1) Finding that to form the phenomenon of social deterritorialization, several processes must go through, including the communication applications used. Followed by the delivery of the first message to start communication. There is intense communication by giving more attention to the partner, the active role of parents to provide support, commitment given to the partner, there are symbols displayed on the partner's social media which can be seen from the face, house, work, lifestyle as well as the profile display used by the partner and The latter will give rise to meaning in the form of positive or negative meaning. 2) Factors between husband and wife in creating social deterritorialization relationships are due to economic factors which include work which is considered to guarantee life when married, social factors which include equality which makes couples more compatible, religious factors which include understanding of religion in each partner and have the same life goals.